The short answer: you cannot tell by looking
Asbestos fibers are microscopic β typically 0.1 to 10 micrometers in diameter and invisible to the naked eye when airborne. The materials that contain them look indistinguishable from ordinary building products: the same white floor tile, the same grey roof sheet, the same textured ceiling paint. There is no colour, texture, or marking that reliably separates an asbestos-containing product from a non-asbestos version of the same item.
What you can use to assess risk is age, location, and material type. Any building constructed or refurbished before 1990 β and in some countries, before 2000 β may contain asbestos in dozens of locations. If you are unsure whether a material contains asbestos, treat it as if it does and commission a bulk sample analysis before disturbing it.
Do not attempt to identify asbestos by breaking or touching the material
Disturbing asbestos-containing materials to inspect them releases fibers. If you suspect asbestos, leave the material undisturbed and contact a qualified asbestos survey